Being cybersecure is keeping your digital devices, personal information, money, and online data safe. This includes being secure on dating websites.

Online dating has become an exciting way for older people in Australia to connect. Whether you’re looking for friendship or romance, the internet can help you meet people. Still, prioritising your safety is essential.
Here’s how you can navigate the world of online dating with confidence.
Choose dating platforms with good reputations, especially those tailored to older adults.
See what your peers have to say. Look for positive reviews from other users.
Make sure the platform includes safety features, such as profile verification. And don’t forget to read through the privacy policies.
Be careful of what information you share in your profile and messages.
Keep details like your full name, address, and phone number private until you trust the person.
You can choose a username and profile photo that reflect your personality. But try do this without revealing too many personal details.
Use the messaging platform provided by the dating site at first. This will be more secure than using other messaging apps.
Set expectations early. Be clear and upfront about your intentions to avoid misunderstandings.
Don't rush. Build trust over time before sharing your personal details or identifying information.
Meet somewhere public for the first time, if you choose to meet in person.
Don’t forget to tell someone before you go. Share your plans, including who you’re meeting and where, with a friend or family member.
If something feels off during your conversations, listen to your gut.
Be alert if the match seems too good to be true. It can be worth investigating this unease.
It’s always acceptable to take a step back if you’re feeling uncomfortable. You can let the other person know if you need time, space, or to end your communication.
A catfish is someone who creates a false online identity to trick you. They often ask for money or try to blackmail you with sensitive information.
Here are some tips for protecting yourself from catfish:
You can verify profile pictures with these popular websites using the following steps:
Google will search the internet for similar images. If the same picture appears on other profiles or sites, it’s a sign to be cautious of the person.
If you discover that your match isn’t who they claimed to be, you’re not alone. Romance scams are designed to be convincing, and they can happen to anyone.
It's not uncommon, according to the National Anti-Scam Centre. Older Australians reported losses of $3.5 million to romance scams from April to June 2024.
Here’s what to do if you suspect or know you’ve been targeted:
Remember, scammers rely on shame to keep victims silent. If you’re feeling embarrassed or overwhelmed, now is the time to be kind to yourself and take steps to move forward.
Approach dating, whether online or in person, with an open mind and the goal of enjoying yourself. Relationships take time to develop. So, let your connections grow naturally.
Online dating can be a wonderful way to meet new people, but your safety should always come first. Stay vigilant, embrace the technology, and enjoy the journey of forming meaningful connections.
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Cyber.gov.au is provided by the Australian Cyber Security Centre. They provide practical steps to keep yourself and your family secure. These steps have been translated into different languages.
National Aged Care Advisory Service. (2024). NASC quarterly update: April–June 2024. https://www.nasc.gov.au/reports-and-publications/quarterly-update/nasc-quarterly-update-april-june-2024
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